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I made a birthday party(I booked laser tag) and it's going to be tomorrow. I told 15 people in advance, and 8 people aren't coming. I feel hurt. Other people have birthday parties and most people go. I asked someone how much they wouldnt expect to come(she organised a couple of parties before) and she said out of 20, she would expect 3 not to come.
I just feel like people are making excuses...maybe I'm just annoying or something.
I don't feel like going now because I look like I don't have many friends..which I don't, and I feel ashamed of. Most of the people I invited were acquaintances anyway.
I asked people 2 or 3 weeks before
I told people...but I also told them to get back to me if they could go. I sent a couple invites over facebook, but they didn't reply and so I opted to tell them in real life
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Hmm... I wouldn't take it too personally. Usually acquintences are less likely to come to parties than close friends. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are annoying, they just might be afraid of awkwardness because they don't know you or the people coming extremely well.
Did you send out formal invitations or just "tell" people? Sometimes things mentioned in conversation are taken as more casual where people say they "might" come, or decide not to come. Sometimes its better to have an actual invitation (it doesnt have to be formal.. but over facebook or formal is fine too) so people have all the information.
Don't worry about it too much.. stuff comes up sometimes.. enjoy hanging out with the seven people that are coming :)
Hmm... I wouldn't take it too personally. Usually acquintences are less likely to come to parties than close friends. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are annoying, they just might be afraid of awkwardness because they don't know you or the people coming extremely well.
Did you send out formal invitations or just "tell" people? Sometimes things mentioned in conversation are taken as more casual where people say they "might" come, or decide not to come. Sometimes its better to have an actual invitation (it doesnt have to be formal.. but over facebook or formal is fine too) so people have all the information.
Don't worry about it too much.. stuff comes up sometimes.. enjoy hanging out with the seven people that are coming :)
I am throwing a Laser Tag Party for my 11 year old boy, any ideas on what to place in goodie bags?
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Anyone have cool wording for invitations?
I mean items for bags that have a Laser Tag theme.
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"You've been tagged to help me celebrate my birthday!"
As for goodie bags, check out your local party store. They'll be able to show you some good, but inexpensive stuff to put in them. What things does your son enjoy getting? Most kids that age like the same things.
Pokemon cards are still popular.
"You've been tagged to help me celebrate my birthday!"
As for goodie bags, check out your local party store. They'll be able to show you some good, but inexpensive stuff to put in them. What things does your son enjoy getting? Most kids that age like the same things.
Pokemon cards are still popular.
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